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Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! One of the most important aspects of planning a wedding is creating your guest list. This can be a daunting task, but with a little organiSation and planning, you can create a guest list that you are happy with.
- Determine your wedding venue and budget
Before you begin creating your guest list, it's important to know how many guests you can invite. Your wedding venue and budget will play a significant role in how many guests you can invite. Some venues have a maximum capacity, while others may have a minimum spend requirement. Knowing these details ahead of time will help you determine how many guests you can invite.
- Create a rough guest list
Start by creating a rough guest list of everyone you hope to invite. This list should include family members, close friends, and any other important people in your life. Once you have your list, break it down into two categories: must invite and optional to cut if you need to downsize.
Your must-invite list should include people who you cannot imagine getting married without, such as immediate family members and close friends. Your optional to cut list should include people who you would like to invite, but could potentially cut if you need to downsize.
- Determine your relationship with each guest
As you go through your guest list, take the time to consider your relationship with each guest. Do you keep in touch or have you lost contact over the years? Are they someone who you genuinely want to share your special day with? If you're not sure, consider whether or not you should invite them.
- Consider conflicts that could arise
It's important to consider conflicts that could arise from inviting certain people. For example, if you have divorced parents who do not get along, you may want to consider having separate tables or not inviting one parent altogether. If there is a massive red flag, such as a family member who has been known to cause drama at events, you may want to consider not including them at all.
Creating your wedding day guest list can be a challenging task, but by following these steps, you can create a list that you are happy with. Remember, it's your special day, and you should invite the people who you truly want to share it with.